Finding YOUR Voice
Somebody reported that they are taking a hypnotherapy training program, their practice partners tell her they love her voice, she loves her voice, she is often told she loves her voice, but the instructor wants her to change.
This situation is truly a metaphor for life, isn't it? You KNOW something is good, something is right, something is actually perfectly wonderful. You like your own voice, for goodness sake! Most people can not say that at all. If you took a survey of ten people, most likely nine of them would tell you they don't like their voice, or that they are uncomfortable hearing it. But YOU like yours!!! Other people like yours. But you question yourself because one "authority source" tells you that you are doing it wrong.
Please ask the instructor to pass your test, then go on to rediscover your own beautiful voice. Besides, if you speak softly, people will listen more closely to be able TO HEAR you!
Sometimes, however, it doesn't make sense to speak softly or slowly - for example when you are trying to motivate someone, or to excite them, or create feelings of pleasure and happiness - then you should take it up a notch. Your voice should always be congruent with the message you are delivering.
But the point I really wanted to make is this: trust yourself, trust your truths, believe in yourself and your voice. Find your own voice. That's the REAL lesson here. Hear?!
This situation is truly a metaphor for life, isn't it? You KNOW something is good, something is right, something is actually perfectly wonderful. You like your own voice, for goodness sake! Most people can not say that at all. If you took a survey of ten people, most likely nine of them would tell you they don't like their voice, or that they are uncomfortable hearing it. But YOU like yours!!! Other people like yours. But you question yourself because one "authority source" tells you that you are doing it wrong.
Please ask the instructor to pass your test, then go on to rediscover your own beautiful voice. Besides, if you speak softly, people will listen more closely to be able TO HEAR you!
Sometimes, however, it doesn't make sense to speak softly or slowly - for example when you are trying to motivate someone, or to excite them, or create feelings of pleasure and happiness - then you should take it up a notch. Your voice should always be congruent with the message you are delivering.
But the point I really wanted to make is this: trust yourself, trust your truths, believe in yourself and your voice. Find your own voice. That's the REAL lesson here. Hear?!
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